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Early Bird Catches The Worm, Does That Matter?

I have heard this saying all my life and today I just sat back for a moment to think about what does it mean?

I know the traditional answer about being first, waking early, not waiting for others to move…

But I like to look at all sides of things because I believe most things that have been repeated over and over are actually things that can paralyze people, because they believe it.

So I asked myself, does being first or early always a good thing?

What if a Coyote was out watching that worm? If you were the early bird, wouldn’t that mean you are the first bird eaten for the day?

Isn’t it true that most pioneers die broke? They just get things started. Yet, they aren’t around to see it through. Yes, others benefit, but the pioneer didn’t get a chance to eat the worm.

Now some may say, Ron, you are being negative or why are you looking at the opposite?

Well, I know people quit because they start to think, it is too late. I missed the boat.
I wasn’t the early bird. This probably fits 80% of the people.

I have a belief that most of the messages that are repeated, are created by the 20%’ers. This is what drives them. Competition. Being first. Being the best.

80% of the world just wants to participate. They just want a chance. Of course, they would like to win because that is human nature. But if they know they may not be first or the best, but at least they can get some worms, they will get up and make it happen.

So I guess my conclusion from this thought process is get up, get involved and you too will get worms. Even if it isn’t the first catch of the day.

It ain’t right, it ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.

Does Today Look Like Yesterday?

id you know that everyday is a new day? What? Of course we know that.

No, did you know that everyday is a new day? Ok, I don’t get it.

Everyday brings with it a fresh new start. You get to start your life over again. The problem for most people is last night (before they went to sleep) they were having the same thoughts they had the night before. So?
Well that means they will wake up today with the same thoughts they woke up with yesterday. Which means they are continuing the same process each day. It would only make sense that if you are thinking the same thoughts, you would continue to get the same results.

I have always shared an example that when we wake up each morning, we sit at the kitchen table and read the movie section and it has a section that says, “We are looking for people to play the role of: villain, gangster, super hero, victim, a driven individual, confident person…” and the list goes on.

Most decide to sign up as a victim and then spend the whole day asking “Why. Why me?” My response is you got the role you signed up for, why are you complaining?

Without going into a lot of detail, the law of attraction will give you what you ask for.
You will get what you really really want. You will also get what you really really don’t want.

This is exciting to know because it just means that we need to learn to focus on what we really really want. The law of attraction does not try to interpret if what you want is good, bad, frustrating, sad or the other feelings that follow. It just brings you what you focus on.

So if you get what I just said, if you start right this moment to start to think of what you really really want, you will start to see things changing in your life today. This change will start to develop your belief in the law of attraction and you will start to change the stories you write.

Your day will change and tomorrow will not be the same. Why? Because when you go to bed tonight, you won’t have the same thoughts you went to bed with last night.

Just change this moment (the way you think and what you focus on) and continue that process throughout the day and you will notice that you will never have 2 days that look the same.

It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.

Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron “Simplified” Myers

P.S. – Below are 2 statements you can use throughout the day. Statements taken from Esther and Jerry Hicks: “Money and The Law of Attraction”

“Today no matter where I go, no matter what I am doing and no matter whom I‘m doing it with, it is my dominant intent to look for what I am wanting to see”

Start your day – “Today I will look for things that are good”

“Inner Voice – Should I listen?”

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John Maxwell talked about a powerful subject: “Inner Voice”. It got me excited because it is such a powerful issue and most don’t understand the impact. So I decided to share my perspective.

I was in a self-growth program one time and we talked about the inner voice.
We were asked to be quiet and just listen to the inner voice. My inner voice said, “shhh, there is nobody in here, shhhh”. That was the day I realized why my personality is the way it is. My inner voice is a comedian.

That night, I was trying to go to sleep and the voices were loud, so I suggested to them “I don’t mind you talking, but if you could quiet down a little bit, so I can go to sleep. I will get back with you in the morning”. I shared this in class and everyone was laughing.

So what is my point? The inner voices are always talking. Most of the time they are sharing input from TV, family, friends, teachers, mentors, etc… So most of your inner voices are just a reflection of the external voices you have received throughout your life.

Those voices can lead you to make good decisions and they can also lead you to make bad decisions. We must remember that everyone shares information that work for them.

The challenge can be when we take others information and use it in our lives. Especially when we start using phrases like, “I am just keeping it real” or “it’s the truth”. It may be true and real for them, but it may not work in your or my life.
We have a proven system within us. Designed especially for each of us. Inside of us is our own GPS system. It will guide you to make the best decisions. The challenge for most is they don’t trust it. Yet it was placed there to guide you through this life.

It is your internal FEELINGS.

If you stop for a second and notice how you feel, your GPS will kick in and tell you whether this is a good or bad move for YOU. I didn’t say for others. I said for YOU.

This GPS system goes by different names. I am not here to tell anyone what to believe. Some will call it God, Jesus, Buddha, vibration, energy, etc…

No matter what you call it, you need to listen to it. People are searching for something complicated when the gift was given to them to make the process simple.

I know there are those that will disagree with what I wrote. Here is my question to you: You have tried it your way, how is it working for you?

If your life is where you really want it (I didn’t say settling), then keep doing what you are doing. If you want more, try listening to your feelings and watch the peace that comes into your life and more importantly, how you start to attract the things you REALLY WANT into your life.

It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.

 

My favorite subject is Me

My favorite subject is Me. What, you arrogant

I know this subject is one that we have been taught is a destructive thought process and a very selfish way to be. Lets be honest, are you your favorite subject?
I remember saying that to someone and they were upset and said, NO, Jesus is my favorite subject. I said thats cool. We continued to talk and eventually they made the comment, You know what I enjoy most: when Jesus uses me to share his message with others. I laughed, There you have it. You should be excited by the fact that the message is being spread, no matter who is giving it out. Yet you are most excited when you are used. Why, because You are your favorite subject.

I am not here to preach or tell people what to believe but I would like to share another perspective. If I am depressed, how much positive energy can I give to you? If I am sad, how do I up-lift you when you are down? If I am broke financially, how do I help you put food into your belly?

I am not sure what you think but my view is You cant add value to me if you do not value you. So the best gift you can give me is to take care of YOU. Your example of a Happy and Fulfilling Life Style will become an inspiration and drive me to start using some of my potential.

Understand there is a difference between loving you and believing others owe you something or believing: to get what you want means: you have to take it from others. We have abundance and can all receive what we want.

That is what a true leader teaches you. How to understand your value and to know that your abilities are unlimited. Once you recognize your talents (which are inside of you), nothing will stop you. If someone is supposed to be a leader and they are trying to show you how to be a follower, STOP FOLLOWING. We are born as unique individuals for a reason. Not to end up as copies, which most unfortunately will.

This is why in most relationships, when people find someone that is at their beck and call, they get rid of them. They use the excuse, there was no challenge. Guess what, you are not supposed to be challenged, (being challenged and experiencing a life that you want are 2 different courses). One creates stress and the other allows you to be FREE.

We have bad programming. You are supposed to be in a relationship that is smooth. You are supposed to be treated great. If you believe you deserve best, then ask yourself the question again,
Are you your favorite subject?

If you are honest, the answer is Yes and guess what, You are supposed to be your favorite subject.

For those of you that will take what I just said and say, So you are saying I should be about myself and not worry about others. Yes and no. You should take care of you because whos responsibility is it? Caring about a solution to help someone and feeling sorry are 2 different responses. 1 allows you to find solutions without taking on the burden. The other brings you down with others and you are back to being of no value.

I will stop here. This subject is a lot deeper than I could place in a blog. It is information that will be clarified in my book. I would enjoy your feedback.

It aint right. It aint wrong. Its just my opinion.

Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron Simplified Myers

PS The reason for this blog is to help those that are in doubt. Those that are waiting for someone else to be their savior (we are not talking religion or spirituality here). This is a message to tell them to take back their power. That can only occur when they start to believe in their favorite subject ME. By the way, those of you that are chasing the dollars, why are you chasing them?
Because of what you believe those dollars will bring to Say it again: to who

Change Your Future. Not Now But RIGHT NOW

Everyday we get the opportunity to start our life over again. For most they believe that their life is the same and will continue that way.

I have a different outlook. At night when I am about to go to sleep, I do a prayer:

“I acknowledge that today’s experiences were added to me so that I could enjoy an always expanding world. Tomorrow I get to start a new journey and a new life. I look forward to the new experiences”.

I usually change the wording a little but this is the major message.

Why is this important?
Most haven’t figured out the reality of the prayer. The reason that each day looks the same for most is because they go to bed with the same thoughts and beliefs that they had yesterday. When they get up tomorrow, they will start with the same thoughts and beliefs and pattern of their day as “today”.

Somewhere along this journey of life, people have to stop and recognize that you can change your future, not now, but “RIGHT NOW”.

When something happens in the next 5 minutes, see if you can look at what occurred from a different perspective. If you do this throughout the day, you will notice that tomorrow will never look like today.

It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion

Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron “Simplified” Myers

PS – Here is a quick prayer, change of thought, conversation with your higher power. Whatever you want to call it. It comes from Abraham (Esther Hicks):

Make a list for the Universal Staff:

*Bring Me Ideas
*Help me rondevu with other like-minded people
*Help me be aware of my power
*Guide me to thoughts that are in harmony with my core desires
*Bring me evidence in how all this works in Fun, comfortable, humorous, delicious
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Make this statement. Ponder this for Three Days YOUR life will be Transformed.
You will recognize the unusual things that will COME to YOU. ?

What You Dont Want Is Actually Your Friend

“Every subject is actually 2 subjects. What is wanted and lack of it”. (Esther and Jerry Hicks Abraham)

What exactly does that mean?

There is abundance and lack of abundance. There is health and lack of health.

The challenge that people have in life is which side of the subject they choose to operate on. Most people focus on “what they don’t want”. They receive it and then complain.
Those that get what they “really” want in life, recognize “what they don’t want”, but they focus on “what they want”. Focusing on “what they want” is what keeps them on track.

It has been rumored that a reporter asked Thomas Edison, “How did it feel to fail over 9,000 times (in his attempt to create the light bulb)”. His response was, “I haven’t failed and I have learned there are 9,000 ways it won’t work”.

Every subject is actually 2 subjects.

We are not going to get into the conversation on whether he actually created the light bulb or not. For those of you that are thinking about that, this blog is especially for you. Why do I say that? What are you focused on?

Stay on track with me here. lol

Using this example, the “don’t want” which we will assume was darkness. Edison wanted light. He had a choice on how to focus (perceive the situation). Most would focus on the attempts that didn’t work and most would have given up. His focus was creating “light” (what he really wanted) and that kept him moving until he figured it out.

If you caught what I said, both sides of the subject started with “what was NOT wanted”. Depending on which side you choose to focus on will show, by your results.

You will get what you focus on, whether it is “what you really want” or what you “really really don’t want”. Your focus will attract it.

I was thinking about that one day. Is there anything that exists today that didn’t start with something that someone “didn’t want”? Maybe you can think of something, but I came up with “NO”. So it made me recognize that what you “don’t want” is actually your friend. It opens the door to new experiences.

If we only had what we want, life would cease to exist. It is the “don’t want” that causes us to expand our thinking and creating the things that exist in our world.

So the next time you think of something you don’t want, GET EXCITED. Realize the other side of this subject will create a new experience.

By the way, enjoy the journey while going through the new experience.

It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Ron “Simplified” Myers

PS – I heard it said that when you come across a challenge (problem) in life, you have just been given an ideal to attract success into your life. What you must do is find a solution and share it with those that are having the same concern.
Example: Something as simple as turning a ketchup bottle upside down.

What is success ?

What is success?

As human beings we all have different perspectives on what this means. Unfortunately for most, they have allowed society to change their definition.

What do I mean (after all we are supposed to be enjoying this journey called “LIFE”)?
Most people have been programmed that if something doesn’t go the way they designed it; then it is failure.

Worst then this thought is when someone has an ideal for you and you don’t follow his or her wishes, then you are told that you failed.

Here is a tip: no one knows what is perfect for them. So how can someone decide for you what is right or wrong.

As we experience life, we realize what we don’t want. Those thoughts of “don’t want” will start to direct us to what “we want”.

So to me, I don’t believe in the word failure. I believe through experiencing life, you find out new things. Some you will like and want more of it. Some you won’t and you will strive to figure out a way to eliminate it from your life.

In my eyes, to be truly successful is to follow your “TRUE FEELINGS”. The ones that make you feel good inside. You should not ignore those “true feelings” because society tells you that you should feel or think a certain way.

Guess what? Your feelings are your feelings. They are there because of the story you were designed (born) to write (by finding your own success and living your experiences).

I will give you Ron’s definition of success. I have a schedule that I strive to follow daily, but if I get off track, I readjust and move forward. I don’t have time to beat myself up because of a schedule. (Hint: There are enough people out there that will try to beat you down, so you don’t need to help them. Somebody has to fight for you. Yep that’s right: YOU).

At the top of my schedule (the number one thing I must do everyday) is???

WAKE UP!!!

Yes, I check it off my schedule each day. Once I wake up I am successful. Everything after that is my opportunity to experience “Life”. I refuse to allow others to define “success” for me. After all, I have to live with me.

I hope you decide the same thing for yourself. You will receive a “freeing” (Freedom) in your life like never before.

Your Partner in Success and Life

Is Love at First Sight a Real Thing?

Is Love at First Sight a Real Thing?
The Debate Over Love at First Sight
From Holly Ashworth, former About.com Guide

Listen to enough pop songs and watch enough romantic movies, and youre bound to start believing that love at first sight happens all the time. But does it exist in the real world, between real people?

Like so much about love, the question of love at first sight cant be answered objectively. But Ill do my best to answer it here in the most helpful way.

Is Your Mind Playing Tricks on You?
Have you ever seen someone and instantly felt attracted to every part of them, including their personality (even though you havent even talked to them yet)? You might be quick to call it love at first sight, but its probably what psychologists call the attractiveness halo effect. When you see someone who looks great, your brain sometimes jumps to the conclusion that their personality must be great, too.

We all know that not everyones looks and personalities match up. Some attractive people are total jerks, and some of the best people in the world arent what youd necessarily think of as hot. So the halo effect is really just an illusion. Your sudden feelings of love might go away as soon as you get to know the person better.

Love: More than Just Looks

To read the balance of blog: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/datinglove/a/love_at_first_sight.htm

I will share a quick view on this subject (my view).
I believe love is not a feeling at all. It is a decision. You love people because you choose to.
I agree with the writer above about the stories that people write. We all have created what we consider to be the best relationship for us (in our mind). The closer a person stays to that story, we call it love. The further they move away from our story, we say we fell out of love.
Your stories create your feelings.
Write negative stories about someone. You dont like them. Write positive stories about someone. You like them. That is why I hope no one loves me based on societies description of love because that type of love is based on emotions and emotions change like the wind.
It aint right. It aint wrong. Its just my opinion.
Ron Simplified Myers
All this information is in more detail in my book that I am writing.